Horohēkepe aroha
Ka tīmata tō tau aroha me te hiahia ki te neke whakamua, engari mā te kaha tahi e mau tonu ai te piri. Ka kaha ake tō ao aroha ina whai koe i tō hiahia pono, kaua i te manawapā. Ka hiahia pea ngā tokorua ki te kōrero mō tētahi mahere tahi, tētahi whakataunga kua whakaroangia, tētahi whakarerekētanga rānei kia taurite ake ai te hononga. Mā tō tika tonu e huaki ngā ara, mēnā ka whai wāhi hoki koe ki te pātai me te whakarongo. Tērā pea ka hiahia tō hoa ki te mōhio kei roto hoki ōna hiahia i tō hihiko, kaua ko ō hiahia anake. Ka tūtaki pea te hunga takakau ki tētahi tangata mā tētahi mahi hihiko, haerenga ohorere, hoa tahi rānei. Mā tētahi pōhiri koe e kite ai mēnā he hiahia tahi; tirohia te ū tonu o ngā mahi i muri i te mura tuatahi. I roto i te tau, ka kaha ake te whakawai ina rite tonu te hōhonutanga o te kōrero ki te matū o te kukume. Ki te hoki mai tētahi hononga tawhito, ui atu he aha tonu kua rerekē i mua i te whakatuwhera anō i tō ngākau. Kaua e whakatau ko te noho puku he whakakore, ko te whakahē rānei he whakataetae. Ka pai ake te piri ina whakaingoatia e koe ngā mea e whakaohooho ana i a koe me ngā rohe e kore e tika kia whiti. Mā ngā mahi tahi hou e whakahou ngā tokorua kua roa, ā, mā te haere pōturi ka tupu ai te whakawhirinaki i ngā hononga hou. Hei te mutunga o te tau, ka kaha ake tō māia ki te whiriwhiri i te ara o tētahi hononga, nā te mea kua tautokona tō maia e tō matatau ki te kimi i te mea tika. Kia māia, engari waiho he wāhi mō te whakautu a tērā atu. Mā te pōhiri mārama me te whakarongo manawanui e whakaatu nui ake i te pēhanga.