Isibikezelo Sothando

Inhliziyo ehlakaniphile ingathola uthando oluhlala isikhathi eside kulo nyaka uma izindinganiso zicacile. Uthando lukhula ngokwethembeka, ngokulungisa izinto ezincane nangokuba nesibindi sokuyeka izimo ezikushiya unganelisekile ngokomzwelo. Abathandanayo bangazuza ngokulungisa ukungalingani kwemisebenzi yasekhaya, ukutholakala, ukuhlela noma indlela ababhekana ngayo nezindaba ezinzima. Izinguquko ezincane zingenza ukusondelana kuphephe futhi kube ngokwemvelo. Izindinganiso zakho ziyakuvikela, kodwa ukuhlaziya ngokweqile kungaphendula umzuzu omnene ube ukuhlolwa. Yisho okungakusiza kunokuhlola omunye buthule. Abangashadile bangaphinde baxhumane nomuntu osezibonakalise ethembekile, kodwa ukwethembana kwakhiwa yisikhathi, hhayi izincazelo kuphela. Uthando olusha lungavela endaweni ejwayelekile lapho ikhono nomusa kubaluleke khona kunokuziveza. Ungazami ukulawula yonke imininingwane yobudlelwano obusakhula; shiya nendawo yezimanga. Izingxoxo ngekusasa ziyocaca ngokuhamba konyaka lapho nobabili nizimisele ukuzivumelanisa. Ekupheleni konyaka ungakhetha ubudlelwano obuzolile, obubuyisanayo nobusekelanayo, bese udedela obukushiya uphethe wonke umthwalo. Qaphela lokho umuntu akwenzayo, hhayi lokho akuthembisayo kuphela. Uthando olufanele luzokhombisa ukuzimisela ngokuphindaphindiwe.