Dream dictionaries commonly connect the elephant with strength, wisdom, memory, loyalty and substantial influence. Its size can reflect something important in waking life: a responsibility, relationship, ambition or unresolved matter that occupies more space than you would like. The symbol may also encourage patience, because an elephant usually represents durable progress rather than quick results.
The scene changes the emphasis. Riding an elephant can suggest rising status, gaining control over resources or learning to direct powerful circumstances. Feeding or caring for one may point to loyalty and support given to an influential person, or to a responsibility that benefits you in return. A calm elephant can reflect inner steadiness and reliable protection. An angry, charging or confined elephant may show suppressed frustration, fear of authority or a powerful situation that no longer feels manageable. If the elephant appears in your home, consider which major concern has entered your private life. The most useful interpretation depends on your feelings and on what currently seems unusually difficult to overlook.